Am I A Mental Health Carer?

But I don’t see myself as a mental health carer?

Many people don’t see themselves as a mental health carer or refer to themselves as a mental health carer.

Most people just consider themself a partner, a spouse, a sibling, a parent, a child, a friend, a relative – of someone living with a mental illness.

Usually when your loved one becomes unwell, caring becomes something that you just naturally do. Nobody asks you to be a mental health carer – you just assume the role. This might be because you see it as your duty and do so willingly, or for others, it might be due to cultural reasons, and you see it as being your responsibility. Sometimes if you don’t take care of your loved one, you wonder who else is going to do it.

Being a mental health carer for someone in your life may be rewarding for a lot of people, but it can also be quite challenging at times and may have a significant impact on your life e.g., financially, socially, physically, and mentally.

You don’t need to live with the person you care for to be considered a mental health carer, be the only person providing care to that person, or need to be providing care most of the time.

Additionally, you don’t need to be receiving a financial payment to be considered a mental health carer, e.g., the Carers Allowance, Carers Payment, Carer Supplement and/or the Carer Adjustment Payment from Centrelink.

What does it look like to be a mental health carer?

You might do things like:

• Take your loved one to and from medical appointments e.g., the GP, psychologist, psychiatrist, support workers, etc.
• Assist with paying bills, and/or generally helping to manage finances.
• Assist with cooking, cleaning, shopping, and other household responsibilities.
• Help with administering and monitoring medications.
• Work with your loved one’s mental health team and/or support workers.
• Offer emotional support to your loved one.

By no means is the above list exhaustive – and you might find the scale to which you do the above to help your loved ones fluctuate from time to time.

It is important to know that you aren’t alone as a mental health carer, and that there are supports and services available to help support you.

Resources for mental health carers